Like everything else in our lives, things change and morph. Nice when you have a love in your life. Still nice when you are a widow or widower. Not that I could speak in public on this topic. Behind the keyboard, it's a bit easier.
Later life pleasures. So many things we widows can do to fulfill our need for touch. Hugs. Massage. Even a pedicure! Soaking in a warm tub. Especially if you are like me and only shower. Seems hedonistic to focus on myself. Which is EXACTLY what that word means!
Dear Widow Friends: How do you compensate for not having a manly hug at your beck and call?