It is a delicate topic. Old ladies are really not supposed to think of such things, let alone talk about this taboo subject. Let’s be frank here. Craving sex and cuddles is a normal human thing, right? Not a horrible deviant desire. But particularly if you're a woman, it seems all the wrong way round. I don’t want to “date” at this stage (and I’m not really I sure I ever will) and I'm pretty sure I'm not a hook up for the night kinda gal. I know this is not a feminist statement ... but remember my age.
Crave a drink and you can glug down a bottle of wine; crave a cream puff and you can buy one and shove it in your face. But if all I want is cuddles, I’ve been reading about some unsexual substitutes for that physical craving of touch.
I can probably up my physical contact with other people by about 100 per cent if I set my mind to it, without involving men at all. Maybe I could book a massage twice a month (surely there is a massage school in this area!). Even a pedicure or a foot rub can be over the top!
Also, I love having the grandkids over. Braeden still likes snuggles and tickles and Deacon prefers to be ON his humans. This is at least once a week. In addition, I now feel way more comfortable hugging my friends hello! Ladies or gentlemen. Even people who still have a sex life often enjoy a hug of affection.
As for the real McCoy ... gosh there are some amazing gadgets out there for self pleasure! But will they sell my name and contact information and start sending me x-rated email? How does a dignified horny gal get hold of such things? Safely?
Oh please, Amazon ... can you deliver in a brown paper package ...