Luckily, the Realtor's daughter was there (she was staying over to let the Terminix tech in the next morning). Former Tenant acted like it was no big deal to show up in the middle of the night, but I bet she was surprised someone was there! She claimed she left a box of clothing in the garage which she needed as she was flying back to live in Portland for a while. Told Realtor Daughter she has been living in her car.
Thank goodness Realtor Daughter is a poised and wise young woman who could stand up to the narcissist witch. She allowed her to take one box of clothing. And informed her to call ahead of time and she or her Mom will let her in.
Former Tenant left Portland, Oregon after her mother died in 2007 and left her $500,000. She left her two daughters, each a single mother of one child. As you can imagine, she has bad relationships with the kids as well as her only sister. She's been alcohol free for 15+ years but the twenty years before that (formative years for her girls) was just a blur. Recently, she started smoking marijuana. OK for some people ....
When she first arrived on island, she was a babysitter with a Maui service with ties to big fancy hotels. After a while they stopped calling her. Hmmmm. She talked about part time jobs so she wouldn't spend down her money, hoping it would last a lifetime. Maui is filled with part time jobs ... and even Uber but she never got it together. Then when Trump came into office, she took all her money out of the stock market.
Honestly, looking back I think she might have borderline personality disorder (one of the most common types). People with BPD tend to have disturbed ways of thinking, impulsive behaviour and problems controlling their emotions. They may have intense but unstable relationships and worry about people abandoning them.
And now, unfortunately, she has become depressed and paranoid (marijuana use?). I hope when/if she gets to the mainland that she gets some help.
Her rage is deep and I set it off by deciding to sell my house.