VIRTUAL HAPPY HOUR

People are continuing to HOARD items.  Our closest grocery store is now offering "vulnerable people" shopping times, 7am til 9am, two days a week.  I'm heading over at 6:45 to see if it is possible to get a few of the hoarding items (hamburger, meat in general, fresh produce, bread and milk).  I hope they are rationing!

WLLO meetings have been on video conference this past week and WOW!  I like it.  Some other Villages are offering virtual happy hour and we may try one as well.  

Not all of our members are tech savvy but those who are may be interested.  It seems much more personal when I can see the faces.  Although the downside is, I have to put ON my face...I didn't for a meeting today and no one asked me if I were sick, so maybe I'm not as ghostly without mascara as I thought.

I've been calling family and friends.  Scanning in old photos from shoebox full of lots of duplicates and telling the boys stories when they see photos of their Mom when she was their age!  Emailing socially much more. And .... NOT BUYING ON AMAZON so they can supply necessities rather than my luxuries.  Backed up my computer (which has been shutting itself down at least once a day) and learned how to transfer all the stuff on the old laptop to a new one, should I just order one from Apple (they used to do that for me but it looks easy enough, just time consuming).

This morning the boys played doctor to care for all the stuffed animals who had coronavirus.  I do believe they found a cure!  Braeden has written and mailed two letters to school friends.  It was a great learning experience as he has never addressed an envelope.  Also learned that some new ink pens have a plastic protector over the tip that has to be peeled off.  He loved that so much that he did ALL of the pens!   We played some learning games.  They watched a short program on making plastic from oyster shells.  I think we will visit a National Park virtually tonight.  

Oregon schools are closed til April 28 ... and I have a feeling they will be closed until September.  

Stay home and save the world.

PANDEMONIUM

It's important for people to use their dictionary BEFORE getting hysterical.

pandemic, adjective

pan·​dem·​ic | \ pan-ˈde-mik  \

1.  occurring over a wide geographic area and affecting an exceptionally high proportion of the population

What I am witnessing in my little town of 30,000 is PANDEMONIUM. 

pandemonium, noun

pan·​de·​mo·​ni·​um | \ ˌpan-də-ˈmō-nē-əm  \

1:  a wild uproar (as because of anger or excitement in a crowd of people)

SYNONYMS: bedlam, chaos, mayhem, uproar, madness, havoc, turmoil, tumult, commotion, confusion, disorder, anarchy, furore, frenzy, clamour, din, hubbub, hue and cry, babel, rumpus, fracas, hurly-burly, maelstrom

Yes, this is a serious epidemic, one step higher, actually a pandemic.  But I don't think it is necessary to have pandemonium.  Stop the hoarding.  Buy what you need, maybe enough for the two week quarantine, but for goodness sake let others have milk and bread (not to mention toilet paper).  

I love what Costco is doing.  Letting only a certain number of people IN the store at any one time.  To help keep shoppers in a calm mode AND to be able to have 6 ft distance between people.  They are limiting high demand items.  Some local grocery stores are also doing that.

So far, we are healthy and happy.  It snowed Saturday morning (1/2 inch!) and the family went sledding.  The parents had a "date" since the 1980's Prom put on by the school was cancelled.  The boys had a mix mash of leftovers and milkshakes and cookies while we watched "Are You Afraid of the Dark".  And, yes Braeden was.  We had all the lights off, streamed it so no commercials, and we had to watch part of a more gentle movie to end the night.

Calm down neighbors.  Have a two week staycation, if that is possible for you, and enjoy your family.

PARENTING IN 2020

Raising children is a a lot of work.  Even in a three adult household!

I am mostly in my room, especially after the boys get home.  They knock and pop in many times wanting to borrow (insert your choice ... tape, scissors, markers, pencils, paper, stapler, step stool, grabber, and so on)  I love it when one comes in just to hang or research something on the computer (think dung beetles, big foot, toys in the "olden" days, weapons, candy).  They are also allowed to make ONE copy a day .. sometimes GI Joe or stuffed animal, a special page in a book, treasure maps, something that belongs to the other).

Usually when they want to borrow the step stool or grabber, I follow them out to understand what's happening.  Yesterday, at 5pm, Mr 6 wanted to microwave four sausage patties for his SECOND snack of the afternoon.  After much discussion, he settled for one now ... and if he ate all of his dinner and was still hungry, he could have more.

Sometimes one or the other wants to take a shower in the morning.  We ask them the night before (so they can get up a little earlier) and there is not time for both of them to take one (they don't like "sharing" that any more).  One night Mr. 9 wanted to take a "soaky" bath with boats and soldiers and weapons.  Of course, Mr. 6 wanted to do it after.   But, it was too close to bedtime so I promised him a big bath on the next day.  He begged for a two hour bath and I compromised for 55 minutes.  

I ran the bath while he was having dinner, got the foaming colored cleanser, a bath bomb and a surprise rubber ducky.  I brought in our sand timer (15 minutes) and told him he could have TWO timers worth.  We have never seen a child enjoy a bath so much.  Candlelight, heater on, fresh towels AND a washcloth.  He fell asleep 2 minutes after his head hit the pillow.

Last night, they both needed showers from playing in the mud but there was much hue and cry they both clamored no way!  Dad said they could eat a popsicle IN the shower if they both shared.

Parenting.  I hope we stay one step ahead of those two!  Need to reread the Art of Negotiating.

SIX

Newborn

First birthday ... with all his Grandmas

Always the active daredevil

Wrestlemania

First day of PreK

Boys on bikes

Age 6!!

SHORT and SWEET

Jesse has a horrible case of shingles.  Kate has a bad cold.  I had to pick Braeden up from school at 11am as he had a headache and scratchy throat.  Little guy turns SIX on Thursday.  We may be celebrating later in the month ...

QUITCHER BITCHIN

I still love WLLO Village and the Village movement.

Apparently my venting about the parts I don't want to do anymore has led some to think "why don't you just quit"??  In my little town, there are no transportation options besides the bus, Uber/Lyft or taxi.  I'm not sure I could climb the stairs to get on a bus, let alone our 85+ year old members.  And none of these services will wait while you attend your appointment.  We fill a big niche for people on a budget.

Two members faithfully use their 3 rides a week ... factor that by 52 weeks at $540 a year ... that's $3 per ride.  AND often members ask for additional stops on the way home.   We've only had ONE request that could not be accommodated!  (Out of 200).  We also do a lot of M2M (member to member) rides that don't count as a service request (if I am attending an activity, I usually call a member who doesn't drive to see if they want to go).

Slowly but surely Members are catching on to all the other volunteer services we can provide.  Help with yard work or repotting plants.  Putting closet doors back on track.  Loosening up that last screw to get a sewing machine out and into the car so it could be taken for service.  Lots of technical assistance (installing new printers, unjamming old printers, removing computer gnomes that cause weird things, deleting spyware, malware, viruses).  Cleaning grout.  Replacing innards of the commode.  Spackling.  Etc.

All in all, WLLO is a great thing and I'm proud to help.  There's just that 5% of things that grate on my nerves and I just need to let them go!  It is what it is and no organization is perfect.

Recent Volunteer Meeting

The beverage area (Prez made "mock" hurricanes with rum for the rowdy!)

My first ever King Cake

The Prez made jambalaya, dirty rice and a shrimp platter.  It was a real treat (I brought only a veggie tray ... she wanted ALL volunteers to be treated!)  Good meeting and good socializing.

MAGIC MEMORIES

These boys are so much fun.  And they still think hanging with Gramma is fun.  Win/win.  I had a 4 hour date with each boy (separately) on Saturday and Sunday.  We had a blast!  

Lunch and a $10 bucket of 100 green soldiers.  A trip to Goodwill to look for treasures.  Costco for samples.  Banana split for dessert.

Breakfast (chocolate chip pancakes for D) and $10 worth of Call of Duty action figures then a trip to a pet shop that still sells pets.  3 large tortoises roaming the floor.  Puppies, kittens, fish ... and reptiles.  Thank goodness for a kind Dad person to reach in and get one for D to hold.

A trip to the Oregon Coast ... they don't care about rain!

Newport, Oregon has a great Aquarium

His first ever banana split ... yes, at Dairy Queen

For our "date" we went to a pet store where EVERYTHING was holdable.  Now he wants a Bearded Dragon for his birthday